Considering that it is National Mental Health Awareness Month, I thought we could look at some ways to de-stress and be more calm, relaxed and less anxious. Even with the end of the pandemic on the horizon, I was reminded that the stress we've all endured over the past year probably won't just magically disappear. Instead, it may even take on new forms. For example, some people will experience crowd anxiety they never had before, or fear returning to an office setting, or be upset that life isn't exactly as it was in the "before times."
I personally felt more isolated and disconnected from people, and even though I could connect via Zoom, it's not the same as being together in person.
I spoke to the renowned mediation and music expert Murray Hidary, founder of Mind Travel, who shared the following insightful tips that I thought would be helpful for us all. Plus, I added some specific medical benefits and reasons for incorporating meditation into your life, which I am reciting from my school Institute of Integrative Nutrition. All of which, I hope you'll also find find fascinating! You'll also find some relaxing and de-stressing foods, as well as a new farm-sourced beauty product to nurture and heal.
But first, a bit more about Murray Hidary, a former tech shark, turned concert pianist and composer, used music and meditation to help him manage grief when his sister died in a tragic accident. Today, this meditation and music is combined in MindTravel, which is unlike any other meditation experience we've seen. At a MindTravel performance, you can expect a framing intention – typically a short talk from Murray – followed by a powerful musical experience, either in a theater setting accompanied by projected visuals that carry the lecture from the theoretical to the real, or in an outdoor setting using nature as the backdrop and inspiration for a “silent” live-to-headphone experience on the beach, in a park or on your rooftop.
His purpose-driven approach is at the heart of his business success, acclaim as a visual artist and global recognition as a musician. Ever pushing boundaries and guided by a strong desire to help people find their purpose, Murray is now focused on touring his immersive musical experience MindTravel across the globe. Over the past five years, Murray has created over 500 MindTravel experiences for over 100,000 people in cities from Los Angeles to London, Paris to Pittsburgh, Berlin to Boulder; in venues such as Lincoln Center, The Theater at the Ace Hotel, The Metropolitan Museum of Art, The Grace Cathedral, and The National Arts Club.
TIPS FROM MURRAY:
TAKE TIME TO REALLY LISTEN ...
... To the people around you, even if you disagree with them
... To nature -- go outside and "hear" the quiet -- there is healing in absence of sound
... To music – it can uplift or soothe (and don’t just listen – sing, because it can really place you in the moment and relieve stress by redirecting your attention!)
CONTROL ONLY WHAT YOU CAN REALISTICALLY CONTROL
Focusing obsessively on things outside our direct sphere of influence like stories in the news can exacerbate stress. Consume only what you need to know and return to your life with awareness and intention of moving forward
MOVE FORWARD, AND ALWAYS TAKE SMALL STEPS
They always add up. Focus on what is in front of you even if it just emptying the dishwasher or making a concrete plan for your day.
As humans, we are hardwired to want to plan and anticipate. If you are worried, try to focus on the most likely scenario rather than the worst one, and direct your actions there.
BE OF SERVICE
It creates connection and belonging which in turn reduces stress. Check in on someone who lives alone, or drop off supplies.
Meditation is really a wonderful help to destress, relax and calm the mind. This can help your parasympathetic nervous system (of relaxation) kick in and put the sympathetic nervous system ( fight or flight) to rest.
Also, I want to share facts from my Institute of Integrative Nutrition school, how it benefits the body in so many different ways outside of just your relaxed, calm mental state.
Check out how meditation can serve you and your body:
This portion of the brain naturally thins with age. It has been proven that meditation can reverse this process, which would otherwise contribute to cognitive decline.
Meditation has been proven to strengthen your pain response. The practice of mindfulness improves the body’s physiological response to pain as well as one’s perception of pain.
Temporoparietal Junction (TPJ)
This part of the brain governs perspective and empathy. A meditation modality called cognitively-based compassion training has been shown to improve the ability of subjects to read emotions on strangers’ faces.
This part of the brain shapes new memories from experiences. Stress hormones have a shrinking effect on the hippocampus, interfering with memory and navigation. Meditation can help maintain the size of this structure, which is pertinent to our mental resilience.
Meditation helps to dilate the blood vessels, improving blood flow and thereby lowering the pressure needed to pump blood throughout the body.
Posterior Cingulate Cortex (PCC)
This region of the brain is associated with creativity and self-reflection. Research shows that meditation has beneficial effects on the density and structure of this region.
This region of the brain is involved with experiencing emotions. Stress can increase the density of this region, altering the structure of the brain. Meditating can help reduce the density and maintain the brain’s healthy structure.
Meditation is linked to reduced inflammation and strengthened immunity.
Meditation may protect against heart disease by reducing inflammatory markers associated with its development.
Hopefully these tips and meditation will help you whenever you might feel you need a little extra 'umph' to help you with your own mental stress. Trust me, we've all been there, so hang in there. And, if you ever really need more one on one help, I always encourage a therapist in your own area. It can do wonders to have an impartial person who's there to help!
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Promotes relaxation and has 50% of your Vitamin C DV as well as 8 grams of fiber. Harvest time typically runs June-August, but new varieties of fall-bearing blackberries allow harvests to continue through September – potentially boosting consumption and demand.
Terrific for de-stressing and easing anxiety. Lavender flowers can be crushed and steeped in hot water to create a tea that will relax you and help you fall asleep. In fact, a recent study depression/anxiety study showed that those taking a lavendar capsule showed as much improvement as those taking lorazepam!